Lots going on in this thread...... I've seen CA1's really struggle with the fast pace and steep learning curve in the OR. Some seem not to ever adjust all that well to the pace, but MOST do by the end of CA3 year. So, I suspect that some just take a frustratingly long time to get into the groove. But, again, when that critical learning curve is conquered, more or less, MOST adapt rather well.
Yes, anesthesia is a service specialty. To some this fact may not be as appealing. Personally, I look at it as an opportunity. That is not to say that I compromise patient care, but I do find it highly satisfying to work in a fast paced, challenging environment, navigating many personalities (including the surgeons), and quickly and safely move patients along the OR assembly line...... It is what it is. But, it doesn't need to be a negative. Again, I think that because some will struggle with these variables, it offers great opportunities.
Clearly this job/gig is not for everyone. It's important, though sometimes very difficult, to discern if this career just isn't for you, or if this is just a phase brought on by the realities of a CA1 adjusting to a new environment.
Please be mindful however that most of medicine (indeed most of the economy) is being commoditized. This does indeed apply to surgeons as well as the medical specialties. Of course there are degrees to it all. But the trends are towards steep production pressures for all. My only point is to try to accurately assess the realities of the "other side of things" also, before making a decision.
As for the the issue of depression/anxiety, this is important to get assessed I would say. It can be confusing for the individual, especially when there are very real stressors in your life. But, at some point, your response may not be a "normal" one. These things may be effecting you more than the norm, and to a greater degree than necessary if you have an underlying mood disorder. I would highly recommend you get this worked out with a psychiatrist. Medications can be highly effective.
Indeed, stress is a well known trigger of mood disorders for those who are genetically susceptible. Don't underestimate the importance of looking into this.