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As the title says. I have an extremely relaxed temperament and am never angry or "a jerk". I would say 80-90% of attendings are fairly reasonable, down-to-earth human beings, but some just aren't.
I also don't understand attendings that are horrible to their residents/students but nice to their patients.
But some attendings are just extremely hard to work with. They throw tantrums, act childish, and and just temperamental.
I guess I'm just wondering how you guys deal with situations like this and what your mindset is? It makes clinic absolutely miserable for me.
I just suck it up, stay quiet, do what I need to do, and go home. But it does just make my day ****ty. I guess I need to grow a thicker skin, but when attendings treat you poorly, it's the only time I significantly wonder if this career path is even what I should be doing. Whereas when the attendings are generally "nice, patient, etc."...I feel as though the career seems fine.
edit: Well, I guess it also adds to worry and anxiety during externships and/or residencies because when they treat you poorly and think you're not doing well enough, etc...then I'm worried they could fail you and it could cause a lot of issues.
So it's not even just the fact they are temperamental, it's the significant consequences they could impose on you if they end up not liking you enough.
I don't know. What are your thoughts?
I also don't understand attendings that are horrible to their residents/students but nice to their patients.
But some attendings are just extremely hard to work with. They throw tantrums, act childish, and and just temperamental.
I guess I'm just wondering how you guys deal with situations like this and what your mindset is? It makes clinic absolutely miserable for me.
I just suck it up, stay quiet, do what I need to do, and go home. But it does just make my day ****ty. I guess I need to grow a thicker skin, but when attendings treat you poorly, it's the only time I significantly wonder if this career path is even what I should be doing. Whereas when the attendings are generally "nice, patient, etc."...I feel as though the career seems fine.
edit: Well, I guess it also adds to worry and anxiety during externships and/or residencies because when they treat you poorly and think you're not doing well enough, etc...then I'm worried they could fail you and it could cause a lot of issues.
So it's not even just the fact they are temperamental, it's the significant consequences they could impose on you if they end up not liking you enough.
I don't know. What are your thoughts?
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