FrancescaReynold
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There is this one third year resident at my current externship that I am over 90% sure doesn’t like me at all. This is my first week and so I am still getting a hang of things but she snapped at me couple of times already because I didn’t know how she likes to do things or that I am not supposed to put a patient who needs imaging into a room. I always apologize to her right after she snaps at me but she doesn’t seem to really care. She is also very passive aggressive with me and never makes eye contact with me when speaking to a group. I am always respectful to her but I am starting to dread going there everyday already knowing she will be there. Today, I actually cried in the bathroom because I was never in this uncomfortable position before at a program (not bragging but even the toughest attendings at my other programs liked me and never yelled at me). I don’t know what I am doing wrong because I get along with every other resident at this program but her. I wouldn’t have cared if this was at school but because it’s my externship, it’s been very stressful for me. I would really appreciate any advice or just any of your thoughts. Thank you.