I respect your opinion, though I disagree with it 100%.
You
do need to be an advocate for yourself, but what you are describing is not what I consider the "professional" way to do it.
The NRMP addresses this issue as follows:
- Rank and match with integrity
Applicants should create rank order lists based on their true preferences, the characteristics of the programs interviewed, and the perceived alignment of the applicant’s capabilities and interests with program mission, aims, and eligibility. Applicants must respect the binding nature of a match commitment and be prepared to honor the commitment if a match occurs with any program placed on a rank order list.
The SF match says the following:
Binding Commitment
Both the program and the applicant formally commit to accepting a position with any one of the rank choices listed. Both parties are bound by the results of the match. However, an applicant’s actual entry into the training program (and continuation in it) is contingent upon satisfactory completion of the prerequisite training, any special requirements the program may have stated explicitly for all applicants and satisfactory performance during training.
Prior to the existence of the matching systems, an applicant was interviewed and may be offered a spot that day, take it or leave it. This may be their very first interview on the trail and they now have to make a decision to take the spot or lose a chance at that program. Some programs interviewed very early and filled their spots this way. Many students felt that they never had a chance to get the program that they really wanted because they had the offer in hand and the old "bird in the hand" adage applied. The matching process has its downsides, but is better for the applicants than the previous system, IMHO. However, for it to work, there needs to be some degree of commitment to the system by both parties at the outset. That commitment is built into the process during registration for the match.
If the applicant wants to "keep options open," then the way to do that is register, apply, and interview for the positions. If, by the rank order list deadline, they are not committed, then they have the option at that point to back out of the match and leave their rank order list blank. The program nor the other applicants are not adversely affected by this and the applicant has upheld their commitment they made when they registered for the process. Once they turn in that rank list, it is my opinion that they should be committed unless there are extreme extenuating circumstances that change their situation.