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Remove the "prestige" argument. You get to choose a big-league team to play with for two years (when you are all together for preclinicals).
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In other words, you won't be in the heart of Manhattan all the time, and you'll mostly be in Cooperstown. Maybe you can ask about support to help you with your ADHD diagnosis, but I think the combination of a lower overall debt number and a less hectic lifestyle similar possibly to living in New Haven (probably nicer)... that's hard for me to turn down if community medicine is really your purpose.