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I already posted this question on the surgical subforums but am not getting much of a response. If you could give me your thoughts on the matter, I'd appreciate it.
I'm an M1 and so obviously I don't know what field I'm headed into, but surgery fascinates me. Honestly, I can't think of another job that is cooler. Even the president of the United States holds nothing on a surgeon. I can very easily see myself as a surgeon - lifestyle and all... except I already have kids.
I'm a mother to a 3 1/2 year old and 18 month old. They will be 7 and 5 when I finish med school. I'm very much concerned about how me going into a time intensive field will affect them.
My husband claims he is willing to be a SAHD, but I'm honestly not all that impressed with the level of support he has been giving me this first year. Even as a med student, I'm doing everything for our kids in the evening and he sits on the couch while I fix supper, bathe the kids, and put them to bed.
Honestly, I'm not even sure our marriage will last through med school, much less residency.
I am interested in other fields and because of the lifestyle of surgery I have pretty much discounted it as an option - yet it just seems so amazing, I'm afraid I may not be able to walk away from it in the end. Are there other Mom's like me who have school age children in a surgical residency? How do you manage it? How are your children fairing?
I'm an M1 and so obviously I don't know what field I'm headed into, but surgery fascinates me. Honestly, I can't think of another job that is cooler. Even the president of the United States holds nothing on a surgeon. I can very easily see myself as a surgeon - lifestyle and all... except I already have kids.
I'm a mother to a 3 1/2 year old and 18 month old. They will be 7 and 5 when I finish med school. I'm very much concerned about how me going into a time intensive field will affect them.
My husband claims he is willing to be a SAHD, but I'm honestly not all that impressed with the level of support he has been giving me this first year. Even as a med student, I'm doing everything for our kids in the evening and he sits on the couch while I fix supper, bathe the kids, and put them to bed.
Honestly, I'm not even sure our marriage will last through med school, much less residency.
I am interested in other fields and because of the lifestyle of surgery I have pretty much discounted it as an option - yet it just seems so amazing, I'm afraid I may not be able to walk away from it in the end. Are there other Mom's like me who have school age children in a surgical residency? How do you manage it? How are your children fairing?