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I've heard different opinions on this : some say it's not important at all, because by the time you get to work together in the hospital, everyone's going to be busy with its own clique anyway, but others say it is important, because you'll going to have more opportunities and you're going to develop social skills if you do it ( in some field, such as Psychiatry, social skills are really important ).
I'm getting along well with everyone in Med school, but I don't hang out with them outside of school. The reason is not that I wouldn't be invited, but I always have better things to do and by better, I mean activities that don't involve a lot of small-talk. Because the majority of the people in Med school go out in clubs, or go to concerts, or go shopping, or go to see a movie, but it all comes down to the same thing : making small-talk, and I'm not skilled at small-talk.
Maybe it's a deficiency and I should improve it while I'm in Med school, but I simply love to spend my free time by going to the gym or swimming, or having intellectual talks with a very few close friends, or reading exciting books.
I really like my classmates, there's nothing wrong with them, and many of them like me also, but I think that I couldn't manage to make more small talk with them than I already do in Med school and I know that for me it's dreading to make small-talk, while for them it would be dreading to talk about things that I like to talk about ( things that I could talk with people in their 40s and 50s ).
Thanks for your time !
I'm getting along well with everyone in Med school, but I don't hang out with them outside of school. The reason is not that I wouldn't be invited, but I always have better things to do and by better, I mean activities that don't involve a lot of small-talk. Because the majority of the people in Med school go out in clubs, or go to concerts, or go shopping, or go to see a movie, but it all comes down to the same thing : making small-talk, and I'm not skilled at small-talk.
Maybe it's a deficiency and I should improve it while I'm in Med school, but I simply love to spend my free time by going to the gym or swimming, or having intellectual talks with a very few close friends, or reading exciting books.
I really like my classmates, there's nothing wrong with them, and many of them like me also, but I think that I couldn't manage to make more small talk with them than I already do in Med school and I know that for me it's dreading to make small-talk, while for them it would be dreading to talk about things that I like to talk about ( things that I could talk with people in their 40s and 50s ).
Thanks for your time !