- Joined
- Nov 29, 2020
- Messages
- 9
- Reaction score
- 3
I posted here a few years ago, be re-visiting since I still can't get going to med school out of my head... Sorry if this is long winded.
I'm turning 30 this fall. I currently am a nurse practitioner, have been working as one for the past 7 months. About 2/3 way through my NP program I realized I really wish I had pursued medical school, but kept with my program and even did a one year "residency" to help me feel better prepared.
Every day I go into work wishing I wasn't a midlevel, wishing I had just done the whole thing of going to medical school. The problem is my husband is a second year med student and we want to start having kids in the next year or two. I just don't see how time, financial (we would live off his residency salary plus a military stipend) or location wise we would be able to manage it, especially since wherever we go for residency won't be near any family to help raise our children.
I have a strong desire to be a mom, but I also have this huge itch to go to medical school. There are parts of being an NP that I love but overall my job is pretty crappy. I get paid 84k currently to do the job of a physician (I do have a physician I can go to almost anytime with any questions), and the liability/stress of a physician with far less training. If I were to pursue med school I'd have to quit this job for prerequisites and MCAT prep because I put in around 50+ hours a week and have not much spare time. I'd likely go back to working as a nurse as it would be a way less mental toll on me and only 36hrs/week.
The good thing is, is my husband is in military so I could use his GI bill to pay for 3 years of my schooling, which he has brought up himself. He's very supportive. He will only have 2 trimesters of med school debt as the military is paying almost all his student loans.
The only way it could realistically work is if I got into school near wherever he gets into residency, which would make it even that much more difficult to pursue. I don't see us doing long distance for 3+ years, and definitely not with a child.
Or do I just suck it up and be an NP and maybe pursue when kids are a lot older?
Any tips are appreciated.
I'm turning 30 this fall. I currently am a nurse practitioner, have been working as one for the past 7 months. About 2/3 way through my NP program I realized I really wish I had pursued medical school, but kept with my program and even did a one year "residency" to help me feel better prepared.
Every day I go into work wishing I wasn't a midlevel, wishing I had just done the whole thing of going to medical school. The problem is my husband is a second year med student and we want to start having kids in the next year or two. I just don't see how time, financial (we would live off his residency salary plus a military stipend) or location wise we would be able to manage it, especially since wherever we go for residency won't be near any family to help raise our children.
I have a strong desire to be a mom, but I also have this huge itch to go to medical school. There are parts of being an NP that I love but overall my job is pretty crappy. I get paid 84k currently to do the job of a physician (I do have a physician I can go to almost anytime with any questions), and the liability/stress of a physician with far less training. If I were to pursue med school I'd have to quit this job for prerequisites and MCAT prep because I put in around 50+ hours a week and have not much spare time. I'd likely go back to working as a nurse as it would be a way less mental toll on me and only 36hrs/week.
The good thing is, is my husband is in military so I could use his GI bill to pay for 3 years of my schooling, which he has brought up himself. He's very supportive. He will only have 2 trimesters of med school debt as the military is paying almost all his student loans.
The only way it could realistically work is if I got into school near wherever he gets into residency, which would make it even that much more difficult to pursue. I don't see us doing long distance for 3+ years, and definitely not with a child.
Or do I just suck it up and be an NP and maybe pursue when kids are a lot older?
Any tips are appreciated.