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I don't know where to start.. Sooo I am currently about to finish my 5th semester at a community college. At the beginning of college I didn't really know what I wanted to do or felt extremely motivated to do well in school so I took my basic GE's and got Cs on almost everything. Last year I finally took classes that I loved, which were biology and psychology, and decided I wanted to go to med school. I had my heart set on it, it seriously became my dream and i had never felt so motivated in my life. So i took precalc and chemistry and some other classes. RECALC KICKED MY BUTT. During the first few semesters in college i hadn't really studied or worked hard but once I realized how hard that class was i started going to study groups and tutoring. Its still didnt pay off. I was stressed because i couldn't figure out why i wasn't seeing results since i was putting the time in. I don't take failure well at all so i was miserable with myself. I was so stressed that when i went to talk to my professor, i cried in front of him. i couldn't help it..im a cryer. So anyway I realized that I needed to participate more during lecture and study differently to do better in that class. I retook the class again this semester. I AM STILL DOING BAD. I talked to my professor again and he recommended i get tested for learning disabilities. I got tested and came out fine. So then he said I needed to study harder problems instead of simple ones like the ones we did in class. I dropped the class though because even if I got a C in the class it would ruin my gpa which is already low(2.5). On top of this set back, I have a C in chemistry and its driving me crazy. I completely blanked out on an exam even when I had gotten an A+ on the quiz two days before my exam. I cried so much and called my mother. I took another exam yesterday and it felt like so much material that i couldn't remember how to solve everything. This one was actually my fault though because I skipped lecture a few times to finish lab reports and my studying didn't compensate for the lectures I missed. So i cried, a lot, and called my mother and she said that this wasn't my strong suite and that i should rethink my major/career choice because i was going to be miserable following this path. So i cried some more and now i feel completely lost and i have so many questions like:
ARE SOME PEOPLE JUST CUT OUT FOR MED SCHOOL?
IF IM ALREADY STRESSED OUT NOW, CAN I HANDLE MEDICAL SCHOOL?
WILL I BE MISERABLE IF I KEEP GOING THIS PATH?
IF IM BAD AT MATH AND CHEM NOW, CAN I GET BETTER?OR WILL I ALWAYS STRUGGLE..
I just can't shake off wanting to become a physician. I want to learn everything about the body and disorders and disabilities and surgeries and medical drugs and research.
I did some thinking and the only career i found that i could love was clinical psychology or neuropsychology. But that would still require many science courses and math so its basically the same as being premed while in undergrad and I still always go back to medicine.
I just don't know anymore. I feel lost and confused. Im so ashamed of my gpa. i can't stop thinking about my grades or what courses to take.
I know this is long but if you take the time to reply i really appreciate it!
EDIT: WOW GUYS thanks so much for replying!! seriously, this helped a ton.
ARE SOME PEOPLE JUST CUT OUT FOR MED SCHOOL?
IF IM ALREADY STRESSED OUT NOW, CAN I HANDLE MEDICAL SCHOOL?
WILL I BE MISERABLE IF I KEEP GOING THIS PATH?
IF IM BAD AT MATH AND CHEM NOW, CAN I GET BETTER?OR WILL I ALWAYS STRUGGLE..
I just can't shake off wanting to become a physician. I want to learn everything about the body and disorders and disabilities and surgeries and medical drugs and research.
I did some thinking and the only career i found that i could love was clinical psychology or neuropsychology. But that would still require many science courses and math so its basically the same as being premed while in undergrad and I still always go back to medicine.
I just don't know anymore. I feel lost and confused. Im so ashamed of my gpa. i can't stop thinking about my grades or what courses to take.
I know this is long but if you take the time to reply i really appreciate it!
EDIT: WOW GUYS thanks so much for replying!! seriously, this helped a ton.
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