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Just a general rant about feeling alone in my program.
I’m in a class of 14 and so when you’re not included in social gatherings (though there are fewer of these with the pandemic) it can feel really crappy.
Some might say maybe I haven’t tried or put myself out there enough to make friends, but that’s not really the case. I’ve hosted social gatherings for the class (prior to COVID) and organized a movie club that meets every 1-2 months.
I’m a nice and generally friendly person and do pretty okay at my job as a resident.
One girl in my class is getting married soon and having it all outdoors, she is inviting multiple people in my class but I was not invited. I figured this out when another person in my program told her, in front of me, “I got your email with the date!” And another person next to her, also in my class, said “I got it too!” And then it was awkward and I realized I hadn’t been invite.
I guess it just feels crappy because I want to feel liked by my co-residents.
I’m in a class of 14 and so when you’re not included in social gatherings (though there are fewer of these with the pandemic) it can feel really crappy.
Some might say maybe I haven’t tried or put myself out there enough to make friends, but that’s not really the case. I’ve hosted social gatherings for the class (prior to COVID) and organized a movie club that meets every 1-2 months.
I’m a nice and generally friendly person and do pretty okay at my job as a resident.
One girl in my class is getting married soon and having it all outdoors, she is inviting multiple people in my class but I was not invited. I figured this out when another person in my program told her, in front of me, “I got your email with the date!” And another person next to her, also in my class, said “I got it too!” And then it was awkward and I realized I hadn’t been invite.
I guess it just feels crappy because I want to feel liked by my co-residents.