Cardio here and I found this thread very interesting and a lot of great points made by all here. I agree in that this isn't a black and white issue and honestly I don't think there is one absolute/correct answer.
I DO agree in that there needs to be a frank discussion between all involved, and notable between the surgeon and patient regarding all the risks. Obviously just going by guidelines we should hold off and wait ideally after 1 year, though probably 6 months is sufficient as risk of MACE seems to level off then.
That said, a lot of these studies (certainly up until the mid-late 2000's) that looked at risks of stent thrombosis involved BMS and the 1st-gen DES. The newer 2nd Generation DES (which I'm assuming she had received) have even better/lower rates of late stent thrombosis (I've seen <1% at 12 months in some studies, outside of needing non-cardiac surgery of course).
There's still on-going debate in our literature on not only how long to keep patients on DAPT, but on the minimum DAPT time needed, with some even advocating that DAPT <6 months for those receiving the 2nd Gen DES as sufficient and allowing non-cardiac surgery 4-6 weeks after PCI. In the past if we knew someone needed surgery in the upcoming few months it was thought that we should implant a BMS, keep on DAPT for 4-6 weeks then let them have surgery. Though now with 2nd Gen DES there is some data that even tailored therapy as short as 30 days in patients with a higher bleeding risk/high thrombotic risk with a Zotarolimus-eluting stent is superior to BMS. (ZEUS Trial, JACC 2015)
I do agree that surgery at this point after her ACS event increases her overall risk and many other factors would need to be factored in here.... urgency of the CEA as deemed by the vascular surgeon, location of her stent (distal RCA vs a proximal LAD stent) and extent of her CAD/atherosclerotic burden overall, continued smoking, and frankly her wishes as well as which problem she is going to be worried about more (risk of a periop cardiac event vs risk of sitting there with a significant carotid stenosis) regardless of what the actually percentages may be.
While I'm not in practice quite yet, if I were seeing her in the office for a pre-op visit and she was 3 months out from an ACS event with PCI, I would certainly have a discussion on the above and officially say she is at an increased cardiac risk (though likely not prohibitive) and probably just give the surgeon a call as my preference would be to wait an additional 3 months, though if the surgeon and patient both perceive it as needing to be done sooner than so be it, while continuing DAPT of course.