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I have seen posts about women that start medical school with 1 or more toddlers and preschoolers, but has anyone here started with an infant?
I am applying in 2010 for the class of 2015. My husband (who is very supportive) and I have a 1 year old (my avatar image is her ultrasound from last summer). We have always talked about having four kids when all is said and done, and the current idea is to pop out baby #2 in mid to late spring 2011. Our daughter would be about 2 3/4 years old and the baby would be 3 to 4 months old when I matriculate if I am accepted in the next year.
I figure this way our daughter has a sibling semi-close to her in age, and I could avoid having another baby through most of medical school. I don't want a huge age gap between our first and all of her future siblings, but I don't like the idea of morning sickness in conjunction with anatomy lab. We were considering having any additional kids during my 4th year and then a few years into my residency, but that's far from set in stone.
Thankfully, our firstborn has been a pretty easy child but I know the next one may not be so pleasant. As it stands my mother and sister live in the area so we have some family support (we're not opposed to moving for my education but we live in the Philadelphia area and there are 5 medical schools here and I am hopeful we can stay here), and my husband is hoping to be in a position to work from home in the next few years, but we're not relying on that. Am I crazy for considering this? I feel like this idea is the lesser of several evils.
I am applying in 2010 for the class of 2015. My husband (who is very supportive) and I have a 1 year old (my avatar image is her ultrasound from last summer). We have always talked about having four kids when all is said and done, and the current idea is to pop out baby #2 in mid to late spring 2011. Our daughter would be about 2 3/4 years old and the baby would be 3 to 4 months old when I matriculate if I am accepted in the next year.
I figure this way our daughter has a sibling semi-close to her in age, and I could avoid having another baby through most of medical school. I don't want a huge age gap between our first and all of her future siblings, but I don't like the idea of morning sickness in conjunction with anatomy lab. We were considering having any additional kids during my 4th year and then a few years into my residency, but that's far from set in stone.
Thankfully, our firstborn has been a pretty easy child but I know the next one may not be so pleasant. As it stands my mother and sister live in the area so we have some family support (we're not opposed to moving for my education but we live in the Philadelphia area and there are 5 medical schools here and I am hopeful we can stay here), and my husband is hoping to be in a position to work from home in the next few years, but we're not relying on that. Am I crazy for considering this? I feel like this idea is the lesser of several evils.