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he does laundry and vacuums - decorated all by himself for Christmas (and did all the shopping and wrapping). Makes me coffee in the mornings and delivers it to me upstairs while I'm in the shower. And he works full-time.
I must disagree. I don't think women are expected to do all the holiday decorating, shopping, wrapping or delivery of coffee. She's giving examples of how he's participating and being considerate. That's not all that common - most of my friends have asked if my husband has a brother because he is so much more helpful and considerate than their husbands! My husband is much more involved with our kids than my dad ever was with us, and I had a pretty good dad! I consider myself blessed and lucky to have my husband - because I don't know that I could have made it through med school (counting down the weeks now til match then graduation) with a husband that was like my dad (not that he would be detrimental - he just wouldn't have thought about it to help out around the house or with the kids, it's never made it on his radar). Don't diss someone for considering that everything we do for a relationship is effort and that both of us should be appreciated for what we put into the relationship.
I must disagree. I don't think women are expected to do all the holiday decorating, shopping, wrapping or delivery of coffee. She's giving examples of how he's participating and being considerate. That's not all that common - most of my friends have asked if my husband has a brother because he is so much more helpful and considerate than their husbands! My husband is much more involved with our kids than my dad ever was with us, and I had a pretty good dad! I consider myself blessed and lucky to have my husband - because I don't know that I could have made it through med school (counting down the weeks now til match then graduation) with a husband that was like my dad (not that he would be detrimental - he just wouldn't have thought about it to help out around the house or with the kids, it's never made it on his radar). Don't diss someone for considering that everything we do for a relationship is effort and that both of us should be appreciated for what we put into the relationship.